How to create your destiny by accepting the circumstances?

We are the only ones responsible for whatever situation we are living in today.  It is not right to blame God for any situation.

God is present in all of us neutrally.  It doesn't matter whether we believe it or not.

• What we think? 
• What do we do? 
• How do we deal with our mind?  

The answer of all above questions are motivate us  how do we face circumstances.

We have to work only one percent to survive.  The rest of the work is done by our inner life software only.  To satisfy the hunger, food has to be arranged.

We do not accept our responsibility.  That's why we always blame others for our circumstances or troubles.  If no one else is found then we put all our blame on God.

This seems to be the easiest thing to do, 

• O Lord, what have you done to me?  This is where all the trouble starts.  
• We start treating ourselves as clean and good and do not take responsibility.
• For this reason we do not do anything good.  This is not where our destiny begins to build.  
• We do not get answers to our prayers.  This is why we blame God for not creating our own destiny, rather than blaming ourselves.

We are all living in a world where no one has seen God.  Only in our thinking do we walk by making the figure of God.

You tell me, if the monkey says, "How is my God?"  So shouldn't the monkey be the same?

If God appears in front of us, then all of us can ask for proof of being God even by God.  But all of us are experts in blaming.  

The easiest way is, O God, what have you done to me? God may or may not have  hand in creating  our destiny, but our hand is definitely there.

You are the creator of your destiny.

We can never define the meaning of life in our words. 

Circumstances Proofing Yourself (According to Brahma Kumari's )

We are always learning a lesson at every step of our lives. The real life  situation/circumstances are our hidden lessons which come to teach us something or the other in a short period of time and bring in front of us .

We all know what is water-proofing. A rain coat worn in the rain does that. In a similar manner is  circumstances-proofing. 

The situations are there. They will always be present from time to time. But you have to mold the way you live your life and make important positive changes in the way you perceive difficult situations and become situation-proof. 

Situation-proof means you become free from the influence of the situations and free of worry. Life for all of us does involve different types of challenging situations.

To get the meaning of life, it is not at all necessary that there must be sorrow and suffering in your life.

If we want to enhance our personality, then we must first empty ourselves.  That is, all the useless thoughts filled in your mind have to be consumed.

Till date, we have always filled ourselves with external information and whether the information is right or wrong.

• we have made our mind a pile of garbage with all kinds of information.  Based on these information, we are all running our lives.  Is it right?

As far as I think, we have 30% positivity and 70% negativity in our lives today.  Negative thoughts have taken over our mind.

Whereas in reality the ratio of positive and negative thoughts of our life should be 80:20 respectively.  

A positive and negative ratio of 80% and 20% is the best.  According to this ratio, all skilled people run their lives.

It is also important to have 20% negative.  For example, let me tell you, if it is winter and if you go out without warm clothes, then a negative thought definitely arises in your mind that I may not get sick.

If there is no cold, then fever does not come, it is also important to have such negative thoughts.  Only then will we be able to protect our body.

Therefore it is also necessary to have 20% negativity in us.  From other examples you can understand yourself as to what will happen when the car is running fast, it can be an accident.

• We consider it necessary to keep the vehicle under control due to the negative idea of ​​being an accident.  
• If we keep this idea in our mind, then we can always just reach our destination.
• By having 20% ​​of such thoughts negative, a person can spend his normal life and being 80% positive means that we achieve our life purpose.

Can we chose our destiny?

For example, before pouring milk in a vessel, the pot has to be cleaned.

• If there is any kind of dirt inside the vessel, we cannot put milk in that vessel.  It will also get dirty, so one must first evacuate before changing his destiny.

That is, to create our destiny, first of all we have to clear all the negative thoughts and all the negative preconceptions inside.  Whatever our myths are, we will have to give them all.

When we become empty from inside, only then we can create our destiny by taking new knowledge inside us.  Meaning to empty oneself.

• Identifying our original state, ie who am I? 

• What is the purpose of my life?

• Why have I come into this life?

• How much time do I have and what can I do   here?

• I am inner life software as an energy.

With such thoughts, we can start the process of creating our own destiny.

We have all changed from a cell to such a large body and this process continues even today, who is conducting this process?

• All of us have done many things with this body.  But everyone's experience is personal at the level of experience.

Therefore, every person is a unique personality and has come into this world for a particular job.

We will not always be there, but this nature will always be.

• With these thoughts or feelings we can change our attitude by changing our thought process.  

• As Attitude will, our personality will change in the same way.  Changing personality means that we are creating our destiny.

Here we will discuss Nine basic methods for creating our destiny.

1: Accepting the Circumstances: Creating the destiny.

Till we have no knowledge of our inner software, we will always keep blaming others for our circumstances by not blaming ourselves.  If none is found, then God is guilty.

We never look at our deeds.  Rather, the blame is placed on the creation of power or existence, which we have rarely felt.  This is our biggest mistake.

We do not accept  circumstances with an open mind. For this reason we do not accept the fruits of actions, and start blaming others for our circumstances very fast.

We have only one answer.

• Oh God, what have you done to me?
•  Why me ?

 If you were God.

If God gives you his power for some time, that you can write the destiny of anyone.  So how will you write the fate of your children, relatives and neighbors?

• You will write your child's fortune best.

• The fate of relatives will also be well  written.

• You will write very well the fate of neighbors.

• The future of the children of enemies will also be written well.

• You will also write the future of all the creatures of society.

Bad luck will hardly write for anyone.  This is true according to human nature.  

So you tell me, if God has written the destiny of all of us, then whatever happens to us should have happened best.

When we are writing the best destiny of all children as a human being, how powerful is God himself?  He must have written the best of luck for everyone.

• From this example it seems that God does not write our destiny and this is the truth.  

In today's society, the person is becoming unhappy with the conditions he has created.  And blaming God only.

Each person is the creator of his own destiny. 

According to famous  writer "Louise L Hey" 

• We create situations ourselves and then waste our energy blaming someone else for our frustrations.  
• No person, no place and no thing is more powerful than us, because only we think in our mind. When we create peace, harmony and balance in our mind then all this comes in our life also.
• God has no role in it.  He has sent us here as his child to live a happy, healthy, loving life in this earth.
• Even before our arrival in the earth, God had arranged the essential things of our life here.
• Five base elements like air, water, earth, water, sky are already placed here.
• Before the baby is born, it arranges for food  in the mother's area.

Therefore it is not to flee from the circumstances, but to welcome the circumstances.  Because circumstances come to remove our weaknesses.  

Just as gold is pure and shiny by burning in fire, similarly circumstances are helpful in building our destiny.

2: Accept your Accountability.

Today we all suffer from a terrible epidemic like COVID-19.  Is it made by God?  No, we have invented it.  

• It is just a gesture of nature and is calling out loud, O man, there is still time to improve.  
• Do not waste nature for your ambition and you have to suffer the fruits of your actions.
• We all need to change the scope of our thinking or way of living by taking lessons from COVID-19.  
• Whatever bad thing happens to us, it is due to our past deeds.  If we think deeply, why does this happen to me?  
• So we can know that I and only I are responsible for this  circumstances and no one is responsible.

Who am I ?  Knowledge of what makes us responsible.  

• This is the easiest formula to get rid of all situations and problems.  I am the only one responsible.
• This sentence is to think through my inner sense of mind and say that I am responsible for my adversity.  This feeling leads us to our destiny.
• Whatever is happening to me, I am responsible for everything.  
• As soon as we tell ourselves that I am responsible for all things, our Inner Software which we also call "I" starts working to create our destiny.

For this reason we get a lot of options to solve problems.  Due to the solution presented by our inner software, our perspective of the circumstances changes.

When the perspective of looking at the circumstances changes, then there are options to solve the problems and by choosing the options we can overcome your circumstances by taking the right decision.  This is the best way to create your destiny.

3:Self-reflection and awareness

Self-reflection is a powerful tool for understanding how your thoughts and actions are affected by your circumstances. Take time to assess your goals, values, and desires. 

Ask yourself what you really want to achieve and what is holding you back. Becoming aware of your own thought patterns and reactions to circumstances will help you make conscious choices about your destiny.

4:Set clear goals

Clearly define your goals and aspirations. By having a vision of what you want to achieve, we can better align our actions with your desires. our goals will serve as a roadmap for building our destiny, giving we a sense of purpose and direction.

5:Adapt and Evolve

Circumstances can change, sometimes unexpectedly. To create our own destiny, we must be adaptable and open to change. Accept challenges and failures as opportunities for growth and learning. 

Use our flexibility and resiliency to move forward when needed, while keeping our long-term goals in mind.

6:Control your thoughts

Your thoughts are powerful tools that can either help or hinder you on your journey. Negative thinking can create self-doubt and fear, while positive thinking can increase your confidence and motivation. 

Challenge negative thought patterns and replace them with constructive, empowering thoughts that support your vision.

7:Action and perseverance

Creating your destiny is not just about wishing for a better future; It requires action and perseverance. 

Take consistent steps toward your goals, even when circumstances are not ideal. Persistence in the face of challenges is a key ingredient in shaping your destiny.

8:Seek support and guidance

Don't be afraid to seek support and guidance from mentors, friends, or experts in your field. 

They can provide valuable insight, advice, and encouragement to help you deal with challenging situations and stay on track.

9:Trust the Process

Trust that by accepting your circumstances and working with them, you are creating your destiny. 

Understand that the journey may not always be linear or without obstacles. As you move toward your goals, have confidence in yourself and your ability to overcome challenges.

In conclusion:

Creating your own destiny by accepting circumstances is a dynamic and empowering process. 

By accepting your current situation, setting clear goals, and taking deliberate action, you can shape your life in line with your dreams and aspirations. 

Remember that destiny and circumstances are not mutually exclusive; They work together in the complex tapestry of your life. 

Through self-awareness and active choices, you can become the author of your own story and manifest the destiny you desire.